After a lot of thought I have decided to start blogging again.  I didn't realize how much people were talking about what I was writing before.  Since I stopped I have recieved a lot of emails questioning why I am not doing it anymore and that they enjoyed reading everyday.  I enjoyed writing each day and most of time enjoyed reading the comments from everyone.  I know I was writing about things that touched on my personal life a little too much, so I decided to change the view point a little.  I am just so curious about the behaviors of people and why they do the things they do.  In life, in relationships, at work...everything.  Another friend (a male) started a blog too.  His viewpoint is very much male based.  It's funny to read how a male thinks about the opposite sex.  This is a sentence that he wrote..."We men are simple, and in order to keep us on track, you consistently have to stick your boobs in our face and remind us that we only get to touch them if we behave, much like you would a puppy!".  Haha!! This is so typical of a male to write something like this.  No doubt, it's true, but at the same time it kinda makes my stomach turn.  Not to say that every man is this way, but is this really how a man views relationships? Is this what we have to do?  Unfortunately no girl I know would want to resort to this this behavior to get what they want out of a relationship, or to get a man to remain monogomous.  He also says that if a guy cheats on you, that it's your own fault for letting him.  I have to disagree with this....really it's a woman's fault for him going a having sex with someone else?? Hardly.  Where does this line of thinking come from??  He says that you get treated how you let someone treat you.  I don't entirely agree with this either.  People are people and some people are going to treat you a certain way regardless of what you do or how great you are.  I think you have to stand your ground and set your boundries, but that doesn't mean people aren't going to cross them.